Hello, This is Elizabeth (Sheila's Daughter) CatLuv had asked me to post a bit of info on how my mom died.....
My mother suffered Multiple Organ System Failure which included her Kidneys, Liver & Smaller Bowl. Hypotension, Dehydration, and Cerebral Vascular Accident ( which means Stroke, Fluid on the Brain). Durring the 2 hrs that god gave my mom the ability to speak to her family, the doctors had to inform her of what was to be... NEVER once did she cry, ask God why, or feel sorry for herself..... My mama endured many issues that took her life but carried her strength and lack of fear with her when she passed. Let that be an Inspiration to anyone who looked up to my mom, sought comfort from her, or depended on her for help. If she can endure all this and still wear a smile, Well so can I.. And so can You.
She loved everyone of her AidPagers and talked so fondly of you all....
Hello, My Name is Elizabeth, I am Sheila O'Gradys Youngest Daughter.
As of Thursday the 5th of May, My Amazing Mother went to be with her Son, Her God, And Her Elvis... My Mother Past ever so Sweetly surrounded by a Room FULL of her Family. My Mother became Very Sick, Very Fast and with her doctors help she was in NO pain when she took her last breath... If you knew my Mother, Please feel free to Post memories of her, Incouraging words she might have spoken or just thoughts you might have.. She love AidPage and Im sure all on here will miss her..
Thank You... Elizabeth
in response to ekikaseven...Hi sweetie I'm so glad you could join this mad house but at least it brought some energy to a dead site. As far as I know she is still in hospital and I'm hoping that she is lucid enough to give someone my ;phonenumber. she doesn't have a cell phone just a land line. Their very lucky. this morning just seconds ads
After reading your "don't put phone number or address's in the main page I just had to tell you that Starshine has been here for over 2 years and we at aidpage are her only friends and family ,,without us she would not be able to function at all. I felt it was neccessary to publish the phone number and address as she has a multitude of friends here, in face everyone here know Starshine and you should be happy i did put her info on the public board as she is probably the most loyal member on your books. She is here day after day and Starshine is always here just waiting for someone to need her, aidpage needed her like crazy when she was making money for you almost 24/7 so I just assumed that you cared enough for a member like Starshine to want her info publish all over aidpage. She has so many friends and giving out address's and phone numbers are the only way most of us can get ahold of her. There is no way I am going to one to one every mamber that cares for her , it would take all day to do that. Anyway, I will publish Starshine's numbers for all to read the moment there is any news. She deserves to be able to count on some one especially when things go wrong and even after you pulled the rug out from under her on her finances she still only has us and I will be here for her. mamashe/sheshe
WRITING:--i DON'T KNOW IF ANYONE HAS TOLD YOU BUT AIDPAGE IS NOT AN ATM. Most of us are awaiting our ssi or ss checks next week and that measley check has to last for a month. Do you honestly think that millionares come to this site, the majority of us all came here with a wish for money and or resouces and we just stayed and helping give out resources is what aidpage is all about. No one here is going to give you $25000 so if I were you play the lottery because your more likely to win that than get any money from here. I wish you luck in your endeavor sincerely mamashe/sheshe
ATTENTION AIDMATES:--i HAVE THE ADDRESS AND PHONE NUMBER FOR THE INTERCOMMUNITY HOSPITAL 210 WEST SANBERNARDINO RD....COVINA CALIF 91723-1515. The phone number is 626-331-7331. PLEASE DON'T CALL UNTIL TOMARROW AS WE DON'T KNOW JUST WHAT THEIR DOING TO ADMIT HER. THANKS TO ALL SINCERELY MAMASHE/SHESHE INFORMATION FOR STARSHINE
ATTENTION ALL AIDMATES::::: The sheriff from Covina Californnia just calle d me and the paramedics did take Starshine to the hospital and I'm sure it was against her wishes but I know she was at a place that she could no longer take care of her so Catluv and I took matters into our hands and Starshine's neighbor was with her when they took her out of her apartment and she told me that Starshine has not been able to care for herself for a long time. She is now at the INTERCOMMUNITY HOSPITAL IN COVINA CALIF. I do not know the phone number or address but as soon as I get them I will post them PLEASE DO NOT START MAKING CALLS RIGHT NOW JUST WAIT UNTIL SHE GETS SETTLED. she was trying to convince me on the phone that she just had to eat more as the food would hold her up. WE ALL KNOW THAT OUR STARSHINE IS NOT WELL RIGHT NOW SO MAYBE TOMARROW WE CAN START CALLING. I just thought we all should know how she is doing. Thankyou Catluv for hanging on to me all day, it's been a rough one but i rest better now knowing Starshine is no longer alone. sincerely mamashe/sheshe
in response to CATLUV...Hi Carluv, I can[t thankyou enough for helping me out on this kind of scary incident with Starshine.
she called me again just as the peramedics knocked on the door and her neighbore was there but Starshine wasn't keen on me talking to her. I asked her what conditions Starshine was living in and she not so good. I asked her to please stick around and talk to the peramedics and tell them she is totally unable to take proper care of herself and I told Starshine she had to quit babbling about if she ate another loaf of bread with a cup of peanut butter she would be able to see it ans thus stand up. She claims it's not from her clot or anything like that it's getting tons of food in her belly area to hols her up. I know I know..it's off the wall but I'm finding she has been much worse and was ho.. to stand up. She believes that is she eats tons of carbs she then has enough food in her to hold her up. today she couldn't get to her food and literllay couldn't stand up. For some reason she thinks that she must eat a certain combo of the same foods in order to fill her up and that way all all that food acts like a support for her back and allows her to stand upright. She desparetly needs counselor work as well as hospital work so I hope her neighbor will stay and explain to them what is going on with her eating diaorder. Starshine was trying like hell for me to stand up for her but I said no way she is far to sick. The neighbor toald me that things were worse then we think. Now here I have gone a done it again. But I just couldn't just sit there and not talk about the elephant in the room. I haven 't heard ffrom her for quite awhile and if I do you know I'm on it. :Your a great friend to help me out on this honey so if I can do anything else plese notify me asap..OK now I have to get off here for a while and play house in my own home but will have phone on me so don't hesitate to contact me 509-218-5383 love ya kitty...mamashe
Starshine CALLED ME.....SHE COULDN'T GET OUT OF BED AND QUITE FRANKLY SHE NEEDS TO BE IN A HOSPITAL, SHE IS LOSING HER SENCE OF REALITY. i'AM REALLY WORRIED ABOUT HER. IF YOU WOULD CAT, COULD YOU CALL HER ABOUT EVERY GEW HOURS AND i WILL AS WELL. I TOLD HER THAT THE COPS WERE PROBABLY COMING AND SHE SHOULD TELL THEM SHE NEEDS TO GO TO HOSPITAL. THANKS HONEY, LOVE SHESHE
Catluv: where did you get that number? Anyway they took me seriously on the second call but I don't have an address but I know she has given it to others but I don't know who. Very strange huh? thanks again. she
in response to CATLUV...YO Cat, I just talked to a gal at that number you gave me and it was the police dept I think but the first time I called they told me Starshine was retired from there and the second time after I told them about Starshine they took al the info and said they will try to locate her and took my number, they said they would put a search out on the phone number so I will let you all know the second I hear anything.. thanks so much cat...love mamashe
in response to CATLUV...Somethin is wrong, I just know it, she was very confused last night and she has been self treating her bladder infection with a whole bunch of holistic crap and the reason I worry is she has lost most of the friends she has ever had and she knows why and all she talked about was needing to move back to the beach and how broke she was and really Catluv she has no one at all and she has some potent sleeping pills and unless she was dieing she would never leave her house, she is horribly agoraphobic so when she doesn't answer her phone I know there is something way wrong. I don't know her address of any of her neighbors in face I asked last night if she would get me her neighbors phone # in case of an emergency. I don't know how else to check on her. thanks sheshe
ATTENTION !!!! Has anyone heard anything from Starshine??? I haven't seen her on here all morning and she always calls me usually before 9OO AM and no call. I called her and no one answered and as you all know Starshine doesn't ever leave her home unless someone actually makes her. I talked to her last night and she seemed very confused and her voice wasn't right. Please let me know if anyone has heard from her at all today. thanks (sheila) mamashe/sheshe
in response to Schmidty...Hey, did I hear "PARTY" I don't know what is involved in a computer party but I'll gogle it and get back at you . Maybe it's something I can ask the universe......no ..no that would be petty as the unicerse is awfully busy at the time getting her a car so google it is. love ya tee hee sheshe
in response to cashay...Cashay, I'm going to go way out on a limb and say that in my opinion God doesn't have a damn thing to do with you thinkin up a car or anything else. Your standing on the rules of the universe, it's a vibational thing which I totally beieve in but you are using it as a joke. Universal Law does rely on how much work we want to put into recieving that which we project into it but God isn't part of that projection. It takes a lot of conastant meditation and being real and sweetie you are not even that . You are talking about something you have no idea about and our using a miniscule portion of the laws of the Universe and your using it in a very selfish way which cancels the whole thing anyway. If you can "think" up a car or two can you think up a decent husband or a job and an education for your sons. Hell I would be more convinced if you were using your voodoo to get your kids in a college. I for one do not believe noe word your saying but be my guest and banter on my dear. mamashe/sheshe
in response to CATLUV...Hello Littleone, what I am wondering about Cashay is where is the tyrant that has been starving her and her boys and not letting her out of the house? Did they make up or is she needing to make up a fantacy life in order to get through reality? Lots of questions but the whereabouts of the husband is a mystery to me. love ya mamashe
in response to Schmidty...Ha Ha Ha oh Schmidty you crack me up, I really needed this conversation between you and Cathay. I'm sorry but it just struck me as hilarious. So far my day sucks but hey it's onlly 7:30 AM so there is lots of time for the s--t to hit the fan again. Lug nuts came off our suv, not a pretty picture. I hope you are sticking around for awhile today. I need a lift in my sprits and your just the ticket. love ya mamashe/sheshe
in response to NikkiK...Nikkik:--I send you Kudos for knowing how valuable an education is and going out and getting an education is easlily said but oh so hard to accomplish. I graduated at the age of 50 with my BA and it was a long hard road for 5 full years. I congratulate any woman that puts education abouve and before anything else. That degree will take care of ;you the rest of your life as well as serve as a huge example to other women. Keep up the great work. sincerely mamashe/sheshe
in response to ekikaseven...Thankyou so much for putting into words what I was and have been feeling. I thought I was about the only person still aching inside from this whole joke that was chris. I learned the truth a lot sooner than most and it was all I could do to just type him back in an orderly fashion without screaming. All I could think of is how it was going to hurt so many here and I knew you and Schmidty and Lee and Catluv would burst your hearts if you knew. I don't know if I even want my faith back, it hurts way to much so I am back looking for something to tie my soul to. I just want all of us to stay together because as much as what chris did to us what our very own site did to us was even worse. It tore my guts out, but now it's all we have to keep us together, a little ironic isn't it. OK sweetie, I love you and know I am here for you always love and hugs she she
in response to ekikaseven...Good Morning lovely lady, I am so glad you made this statement, I have been trying to find words that explained why I don't give much of a damn about posting anyone other than my friends. In fact I just don't much give a damn period and it has come out in so many facets of my dailey life. I am passed hurt now and well into furious and I would give anything if that woman could just face us and let us ask her what in the hell she thought she was going to get out of such a huge charrade. Even my faith is totally shaken and has brought me right back into my old suspicious and untrusting state of mind. I am however thankful to have had my best friends to help get through this crap. It is very obvious that aidpage has a black veil of total disconcern but it's still the only place I feel I can shed my tears and vent my anger. Thankyou sweetie for putting into such very simple words how devastated this site has become. I miss you so much and I hope you will hang on and stick this out for awhile, I know that most of us will not be here long but for now we're all we got if we need to discuss this huge joke paid on us. Take care...love and hugs sheshe
in response to CATLUV...Hi Catluv, after reading your post to me I am convinced that you must have known my daughters, you hit the whole discussion right on the nose. Thanks sincerely mamashe
in response to Schmidty...I think your right ....that it is 45 for males or 40...one or the other and females mature way earlier than the guys, there was a whole program on this very subject on Dr Phil a year or so ago and they had dr's and other professionals backing up this whole maturity thing and men have always (as far as I'm concerned) thought with their penis and once a lady gets that through her head she can then control the relationship . thanks for sharing my friend. sheila mamashe/sheshe
in response to Schmidty...Hey there my dear Schmidty:--I am so glad I decided to check out aidpage this AM and was hoping to see some old friends to talk to and your all out here so I am thrilled. You know me Schmidty I can't let a topic like this just go by without raising me hand to tell my story. It's just my opinion which I changed after raising 2 lovely daughters. I always used to agree with what you just said Schmidty that women kept having babies for security or to make the man happy or for financial reasons. Well.....now that my daughters are 40 and 27 I can honestly say that in my opinion young women (majority) are getting pregnant because their just not mature enough to remember to use birth control like the pills or a condom and in hindsite I wish that I had my daughter on a intra uterine device that would keep her from getting pregnant for several years or the little hormone sticks they put in your arm and will protect you for up to 3 years. Young girls are really like.."DUH" when it comes to not getting pregnant, they are simply not developed enough in their brains to consider the big picture, young men are the same in fact it has been scientifically proven that humans do not develope that part of the brain until the age 25 so in essence they can't really help it, their just to stupid brain wise to think of consequences. My sister and I were talking the other day and she said she cannot believe the amount of retired couples that they hang out with and travel with that can't travel or do the things they planned to do because of their kids moving back home and bring ing with them a new baby or a new girl/boyfrend and the retired couples are now the caregivers to the grandchildren so the kids can get a job. Well I don't know about that senerio but both my daughters chose to leave my home at the age of 17 and I told them both that the only way I would support their decisions is if they got the more permanent birthcontrol that didn't rely on their brains to keep them from concieving. AND....the big thing I made quite clear is once you leave YOU CAN"T COME HOME to live only to visit and we all have a very loving relationship ......they have told me how glad they were that they went along with my rules. OK I've jabbered on long enough...love mamashe/sheshe
Pati, I think you can get a tower for a lot less than $400 so if you can get on google you should just type in cheap towers for home computer and type in the whole thing and see what it brings up. Verizon is going to try to get you to buy the most expensive. I just wouldn't go out and buy a $400 tower because 1 brand said that is what I need. sheila
Reply to MyPassion:---Aidpage is not a site that gives out monetary help. All of the people on here are probably in more need than most of the visitors that come and ask us for help. The only thing we can do is give you resources that hopefully can give you the help you need. Aidpage is here for those that just want to talk to someone and if needed we try to find you a site or phone number or address that you can inquire of and ask for whatever it is your needing. Unfortunetly so many that visit us think we can just send money to all who ask but that is just not so. I'm sorry if you thought you were getting money but I myself am in the same situation you are and I have been with aidpage for almost 3 years now so I wish you luck on your journey. Sincerely mamashe/sheshe
in response to cashay...cashay, cursing is one thing but I can't stay on the sidelines when you start ranting at people and calling them retarded, so why don't you just go back and reread the rules of belonging to aidpage and if you are unable to speak like an adult without slandering others and insinuating their retarded then maybe you need to take some time out and then apologize.sheshe
in response to CATLUV...Good AM Littleone, in regards to my stupid phone....I don't intend to pay a dime for a refurbished phone, the only way I will take one is if it is free otherwise I will just get the cheapest one I can but they have to give me a functioninlg phone......MY GOD with what we have to pay Verizon every month that phone should be plated in gold. It is so good to see you here so often sweetie, it warms my heart that your well enough to share here but most of all aidpage is darn lucky to have you here as you have a wonderful talent of making everyone feel important and at the end of the day that is all we all want......to be loved and feel like we matter. You my dear have a gift that not many here have and I know you have touched so many lives just like you have touched mine. love you mamashe
Reply to Starshine:---I don't celebrate Easter but I wish you a Happy Easter and thanks for the lovely thought. I think my cell phone is on the fritz Patti because your the last person I have been able to talk to. My daughter called me but my phone isn't ringing and if I dial a number as soon as it starts to connect the phone makes thos siren sound and say CALL DROPPED so my daughter had to call my hubby on his cell to find out what was wrong with my phone. I have to go to the Verizon store or outlet to get a replacement and they even have refurbished phones they give to customers when their phone pukes out on them so that is what i have to do this week. So we will have to talk on Email or here until I get the phone fixed or a new one. have a peaceful evening. Love sheshe
in response to Starshine...Hello Starshine, I see your computer is back on again. Did you find out what is wrong with it? As far as Easter goes, we don't usually do anything special on Easter, more or less just another day and I do so hope our weather is better than it is now so we can spend some time outside puttering around and getting out of this house for awhile.How did you get your computer back on line? Thanks for the post. sincerely mamashe/sheshe
Hi my dear friends out there in aidpage land, I decided to make a new post about myself because after visiting aidpage for the last 4 days I have decided that my need is so very trivial. Oh, I still n... see full post
